Sometimes girls go about getting their boyfriend to fall in love with them in all the wrong ways. All guys are different, and what works for some may not work for others. You need to know your boyfriend and what makes him tick. You need to know how to draw him in and keep him there.
Here are 7 tips on how to make your boyfriend fall in love with you:
Mystery
There should always be some element of mystery about you that makes your guy adore you. There are certain things that make you who you are, unique things. Don't let him know everything about you at once. Think of it as all the interesting things about you coming out as a slow trickle of water, not a gushing waterfall.
Your Smile
Your guy enjoys being around you when you are happy and smiling. Your smile can draw him in like bees to honey. Nothing has to be said, a smile can say a lot on its own. Next time he glances over at you, just look at him warmly and smile at him, and say nothing. If he smiles back, you've made progress.
Outside Opinions
Don't try to anticipate and figure everything out yourself. Ask some of your guy friends, or his, about things their past or present girlfriends did that irritated them or caused them to break up with them. If these things make sense to you, then maybe avoid doing those same things with your guy. If they don't make sense, well, no harm done.
Some Enchanted Evening
Every so often, do something unexpected. Have a candlelight dinner waiting for him. Light candles all in the bedroom and lure him in. Plan an entire evening doing something he really enjoys, such as watching movies or playing video games and ordering takeout. Don't tell him in advance when planning these fun nights together. Surprise him.
Don't Pretend
If he has something he really enjoys talking about, let him talk. If it is a sport, soccer for instance, and you know nothing about it, then don't pretend to. You can enjoy and listen to what he has to say and ask questions, but the worst thing you can do is fake being knowledgeable of something when you are not. Honesty is the best policy.
Consider His Feelings
Don't always make everything about you. Things that happen in your relationship affect him, too. If he is sick, pamper and shower him with tender loving care. If he is aching, give him a soothing massage. If he is worried about work, let him unload his worries. He will only be more endeared to you as he realizes you truly care about his feelings.
Appreciate Him
When a guy does something for you, let him know you appreciate it. Guys enjoy being chivalrous and showing us how much they care. If he does things and you don't seem to notice, it affects him. Leave a note on his pillow or in his car telling him something like, "Thank you for the flowers. They are in a vase on my desk and I'm thinking of you."
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